Your Approach Isn't Working, and There's Only One Way To Fix It
Rediscover the natural relationship dynamic that society has abandoned and men have forgotten — and how learning it can unlock the connection, desire, and certainty you’ve always wanted
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It’s Happening Again…
She’s got that look in her eyes.
Cold. Tight. Distant.
You don’t know what you did wrong this time… but you’re already trying to fix it.
You replay the last conversation. The last few hours. The last few days.
You do everything you were taught a nice guy should do and it only seems to be making things worse.
Some days, you catch glimpses of the amazing relationship you’ve always wanted… The one you saw so clearly when you first met…
The rest of the time? You might be OK… But you’re definitely not great.
You can’t tell if you’re on the brink of losing her… or if you’re standing in front of an open door to the relationship you always wanted.
And, at this point, you almost don’t care which way it goes.
You just want clarity. You want peace. You want certainty.
You want a relationship that fills you with happiness and helps you to grow or you might as well be single.
I get it.
For over 30 years, I’ve worked with thousands of men stuck in similar predicaments.
And I’ve got some good news:
There is a way through this… But it’s not what you’ve been told.
It’s not what society is preaching.
It’s not politically correct.
It’s not woke.
It’s not about being “fair” or “equal.”
But it’s real. And it works.
How do I know? Because I’ve seen it transform countless relationships.
If you want a radically different outcome, you have to do something radically different.
And if you do, it will be the greatest gift you ever give yourself and the woman you love.
But before I get into it, there are a few things you need to understand...
Relationships Struggle Because We Ignore Human Nature
I’m about to tell you some things that contradict what you’ve been told about relationships.
I’ve seen these truths confirmed time and again throughout thousands of couples therapy sessions.
Once you become aware and embrace them, you’ll understand what’s been missing all along.
Let’s start with the biggest one first…
For most of human history, monogamy has been the exception... Not the rule.
For 10,000 years we lived in tribes where we shared everything, including sex.
Lifelong, pair-bonded monogamous relationships are not natural.
So, if you’ve been struggling to “make monogamy work,” you’re not broken. You’re fighting with an unnatural model that didn’t exist until about 300 years ago.
But, it’s here to stay…
And if you plan to participate, you have a responsibility to figure out the best way to make it work with your nature.
And, it really can work.
In fact, when done consciously, monogomous relationships can be powerful personal growth machines that grow us like nothing else can.
Before that can happen, we have to take a look at another important truth…
Fairness and equality kill the thing your relationship needs most.
Polarity.
The dynamic that creates and sustains desire, attraction, and positive tension between masculine and feminine energy.
When the north and south poles of two magnets face each other, there’s a strong, natural pull that draws them together.
But put north to north or south to south, and you get a repulsive tension that makes it impossible to connect.
That’s why this idea of 50/50 equality, while well-intentioned, is actually one of the most destructive myths in modern relationships.
You don’t need fairness. You need polarity, positive emotional tension, and a clear understanding of who’s leading and who’s being led.
Partners can trade roles and shift energies, but relationships tend to work best when each partner has a default they settle into.
And more often than not…
Most relationships work best when the masculine sets the tone and takes the lead
Just because women care about relationships, doesn’t mean they’re naturally equipped to lead them.
You’ve been told that, because women care more about relationships, are more emotionally intelligent, and intuitive, they’re better equipped to lead.
But time and again, over three decades of group and couples therapy, this simply hasn’t held up in practice.
In fact, when you wait for her to set the tone, solve the problems, and move things forward, you both end up frustrated. She feels overwhelmed and unsupported. You feel immasculated and shut out.
You know what I’ve see work over and over again? When a man leads with clarity, presence, and love.
Your woman finally gets to relax. She stops trying to drive the relationship and starts showing up in ways that surprise even her.
I’ve said it for years, and I’ll say it again: a woman cannot follow where a man does not lead.
Which finally brings us to the thing that can empower you to create the amazing relationship you’ve always wanted, or gain the clarity to walk away with zero regret.
The thing that, if you do it correctly, is the greatest gift you’ll ever give yourself… and the woman you love.
CONSCIOUS MASCULINE LEADERSHIP
Not performance. Not “alpha” behavior. Not fake confidence. Real leadership.
The kind that doesn’t seek control, but sets the tone and takes the lead.
Leadership through complete ownership. Not of her, but of yourself. Your needs. Your values. Your boundaries. Your sexual satisfaction.
Conscious masculine leadership allows you to show up in a way that naturally shifts your relationship dynamic.
When a man leads with that kind of presence, one of two things will happen:
Your relationship will deepen in a way you never thought possible…
… Or it will becomes painfully clear that it’s time to walk away.
Either way, you’ll finally be able to stop spinning in circles. You’ll stop wondering if you’re the problem. And you’ll know with certainty that you’ve shown up fully, as the man you were meant to be.
And the most effective way to step into that kind of leadership?
That’s exactly what I’ll guide you through in an eight-week process that I call…
Ready to Become The Conscious Leader of Your Relationship?
Enroll today to experience the profound transformation conscious masculine leadership can bring to your relationship.
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All The Way In
Getting all the way in is the most courageous action you can take in any relationship.
It pushes you to grow and become your best self. It invites your partner to do the same and gives your relationship the chance to become everything it was meant to be. It also reveals the truth of any situation. And when it’s time to get out, it gives you the clarity and courage to do just that.
This is not a course about fixing your partner. It’s about transforming how you show up and watching everything else shift as a result.
If what you’ve been doing to find and keep love hasn’t worked, welcome to the club. But all of that changes now. Over eight transformational lessons, you’ll start showing up in a way that reignites passion, rebuilds trust, and reclaims your power as a man. Fair warning though: This isn’t a light commitment and I won’t go easy on you.
But if you’re ready to do what it takes to go all the way in, I promise your life will transform. Here’s what’s waiting for you inside:
Lesson 1: Getting All The Way In
- A six-month framework to bring your relationship to new heights or allow you to walk away with clarity and peace.
- The empowerment of knowing the ability to change your relationship rests in your hands and yours alone.
- The first surge of hope and relief as you recognize the power of conscious masculine leadership.
- The unexpected reason why the more you lead consciously, the more your relationship struggles magically disappear.
- A clear understanding of the line between toxic control and a way of being that will make her feel safe, seen, and irresistibly drawn to you.
Lesson 2: Why You and Your Partner Worked Together to Create The Relationship You Have
- A plan for recognizing and fixing the invisible, co-created system that’s keeping your relationship stuck in the same exhausting cycles.
- Freedom from the emotional blueprints you inherited from childhood that quietly drive all your adult relationships.
- The invisible forces behind repeating dysfunctional relationship patterns and the surprising fix that makes deep, powerful intimacy possible.
- The way to identify your #1 relationship fear and how you can stop it from sabotaging trust and intimacy between you and your partner.
- What’s really behind the reason you keep pulling away just when things get good and how to stop that push-pull cycle for good.
Lesson 3: Transforming Your Anxiety-Based Relationship
- The way your brain chooses your partners and re-creates childhood fears without you realizing, and what you need to do to take back control.
- Your go-to response to relationship stress and how breaking it instantly sets the tone for mutual respect, clearer boundaries, and more magnetic intimacy.
- The shocking reason the person you love most also triggers your deepest fears and how you can finally get close without bracing for criticism, rejection, or abandonment.
- The truth about First Order relationships and why making the leap to Second Order dynamic sets the stage for lasting passion and deep mutual respect.
- How the “teeter-totter” effect works and what happens when you stop fearing your evolution– you discover if your relationship can rise with you or if it’s time to move on.
Lesson 4: Calm is Contagious
- Why anxiety will always surface in intimacy and how mastering your response (not eliminating the feeling) unlocks deeper connection and trust.
- Why trying to "fix" your partner or problems kills passion, and how focusing on growth within yourself and the relationship system creates real, lasting change.
- How we lose our individuality through emotional fusion, and why maintaining your sense of self while staying connected is the ultimate goal.
- The secret to setting powerful boundaries and self-soothing in the heat of anxiety, so you can lead with strength instead of reacting from fear.
Lesson 5: Defuse Your Relationship
- The hidden ownership dynamic strangling most relationships and how claiming full responsibility for your needs sets you (and your partner) free.
- The two childhood survival strategies you’re still unconsciously using and how shedding them unlocks deeper respect, attraction, and trust.
- Why "belonging" often comes at the cost of your individuality and the simple but courageous shift that lets you stay connected without losing yourself.
- The secret to becoming the calm, grounded presence your relationship craves, even when anxiety and chaos swirl around you.
- How building your own “tribe” outside the relationship dissolves resentment and restores real love, freedom, and desire.
Lesson 6: From Salsa to The Dog Whisperer: How to Lead Your Relationship With Love
- The secret to setting the emotional tone from the start and why mastering this one skill makes a woman feel irresistibly drawn to you.
- The hidden role tension plays in lasting attraction and the overlooked secret to creating the kind that pulls her closer instead of pushing her away.
- What her “shit tests” really mean and how passing them with calm confidence skyrockets her trust, respect, and attraction.
- How taking the lead sets you apart and transforms her peception of you, her ability to trust you, and her willingness to open to you.
- How applying small daily actions to consistently reinforce your leadership unlocks your woman's affection, devotion, and loyalty that cannot be faked or forced.
Lesson 7: Love Your Partner Enough to Not Let Her Treat You Badly
- Why truly healthy relationships aren’t hard work and the powerful boundary shift that makes real intimacy feel effortless.
- The reason it’s your responsibility if your partner treats you badly (not theirs) and the breakthrough that you can apply to change the dynamic immediately.
- The surprising truth about boundaries and why setting them is the most loving thing you can do for both of you.
- The reason she tests you and how to hold your ground without creating anger, drama, or losing emotional control.
- Simple, powerful tools for setting boundaries so you can train people how to treat you without lectures or threats.
Lesson 8: The Three Rules for Great Sex
- Why sex is a mirror for life and a powerful tool for spiritual and masculine mastery, and how leading boldly in the bedroom can transform every area of your life.
- The real reason you are 100% responsible for your sexual fulfillment and why that's the best news you’ll ever hear.
- Why "trust equals lust" is the most important rule you’ll ever learn, and how you can use it to unlocks your woman's deepest desire.
- The Three Rules for Great Sex: a simple, powerful framework to spark passion, ignite chemistry, and eliminate rejection anxiety.
- The 30-Day Teapot Challenge: a no-strings-attached way to reignite attraction, deepen intimacy, and turn your relationship into a sexual playground.
Meet Your Instructor
Dr. Robert Glover
Hi there,
I’m Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and Dating Essentials for Men, and the creator of All the Way In.
For over 30 years, I’ve worked with couples who were frustrated, disconnected, and wondering why love felt so hard.
When I first started my practice back in the early ‘80s, women were dragging their reluctant partners into therapy. But by the time I wrapped up my private practice three decades later, men were the ones pulling their wives and girlfriends in, desperate to make things work.
After thousands of hours in sessions, one thing became clear: relationships don’t thrive when men check out and wait for their partner to lead. In fact, I discovered that when a man steps up, sets the tone, and leads with love and integrity—everything changes.
Conscious masculine leadership the foundation of everything I teach in this course. I’ve seen it turn disconnected marriages into passionate partnerships. I’ve seen it bring couples back from the brink. And I’ve seen it help good men finally walk away from marriages they should have left years ago.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop second-guessing yourself, and start creating the relationship you want, All the Way In will show you how.
Ready to Become The Conscious Leader of Your Relationship?
Enroll today to experience the profound transformation conscious masculine leadership can bring to your relationship.
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Hear From Those Who've Gone All The Way In
T.D.
“Our sex life has gone through the roof and has never been as active as now. (We are both 53)”
T.W.
“This was the most challenging, and the most rewarding personal development course I have ever done.”
C.A.
S. P.
“From Zero to Hero in just 5 weeks! I could not have believed that such a profound transformation in my relationship could occur with an online course. I feel sheepish to say I didn’t want to spend the money – yet the investment has more than repaid itself. Thank you Dr. Glover! I look forward to taking more online courses, and learning from you in person.”
Rick S.
“Since reading NMMNG and taking your All The Way In Course, my marriage has never been better. I really do thank you for helping me help myself. I can’t wait to enjoy the improvement continue as I participate in your next course. You are performing a great service not only to guys in need but to so many families including children who will benefit from better, more satisfying marriages.”
Scott
“ATWI has made a HUGE difference to my relationship. I really didn’t expect such a huge change in just 8 weeks. I told my wife something you had written and she said, ‘now he really knows women!’”
C.E.
“While I was driving yesterday, my wife — who is a very careful woman — suddenly turned to me and kissed me on the mouth. I have been with her 32 years and that has never happened. I nearly drove off the road in surprise! There is no doubt that you have given me some great valuable tools. Thank you, Robert.”
J.H.
(Female class member)
“Thanks so much for offering this class – it was eye-opening, challenging, and has changed how I think about my interactions with my husband. It is reassuring – and a bit scary – to understand the reasons behind certain behaviors, and how to change long ingrained habits and dynamics. Since I barely scratched the surface of what I can put into practice, I plan to re-do the lessons on my own in the future, to keep the ideas fresh in my brain.”
S.S.
“The class helped me look at my relationship as a personal growth machine, understanding how my lizard brain is triggered by my partner, and setting boundaries without being controlling.”
A. P.
“This is got to be one of my best investments in personal growth! Years and years of being in the dark about relationships and how my past has played a role in the eventual outcome of how relationships with women would end…Thank you Dr. Glover!”
Your Satisfaction Guarantee
We’re confident that the principles and practices inside All The Way In will profoundly transform your relationships. Your success matters to us.
While we don’t offer cash refunds on digital courses, your satisfaction is our top priority. If, within 30 days of your purchase, you feel the course hasn’t met your expectations or delivered the value you deserve, we’re happy to exchange your purchase for another digital product of equal value from DrGlover.com.
No hassle, no hoops to jump through, just an easy exchange to help you find the right fit.
To request an exchange, simply email support@drglover.com within 30 days of purchase.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this course for?
This course is for individuals or couples who feel their relationship is stuck, lacking intimacy, or simply not living up to its potential. It’s for anyone ready to take responsibility and learn the tools to create deep connection and passion, whether you’re married, in a long-term partnership, or even single and wanting to prepare for a healthy relationship.
What if my partner isn't interested?
While it’s ideal for both partners to participate, this course is designed so that one person can be the catalyst for significant change. By changing how you show up, you fundamentally change the relationship dynamic. Many find their partners become more engaged as they see the positive shifts.
How much time does it require?
This is a self-paced course, so you can move as quickly or slowly as you like. We recommend dedicating a few hours per week to watch the lessons and, more importantly, implement the exercises and practices. Consistency is key.
What kind of results can I expect?
Results depend on your commitment and implementation. However, participants consistently report increased connection, better communication, reduced conflict, renewed passion, deeper intimacy, and a greater sense of confidence in their ability to navigate relationship challenges.
What if I'm single?
Absolutely! The principles in All The Way In are foundational for building any healthy relationship. Learning these skills now will prepare you to create an extraordinary partnership when the time is right, and help you avoid common pitfalls.
Is this course only for men?
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