Your Approach Isn't Working, and There's Only One Way To Fix It
Rediscover the natural relationship dynamic that society has abandoned and men have forgotten — and how learning it can unlock the connection, desire, and certainty you’ve always wanted.
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It’s happening again…
She’s got that look in her eyes.
Cold. Tight. Distant.
She’s not talking to you.
You don’t know what you did wrong this time… and you’re already trying to fix it.
You rack your brain. Replay the last conversation. The last few hours. The last few days. You apologize. You offer to help. To listen. To be patient.
You do everything you were taught a good man should do.
And most of the time, it doesn’t help… and might even make things worse.
Some days, you catch glimpses of the amazing relationship you’ve always wanted… The one you saw so clearly when you first met…
The rest of the time? You might be OK… But you’re definitely not great.
You can’t tell if you’re on the brink of losing her… or if you’re standing in front of an open door to the relationship you always wanted.
And, at this point, you don’t even care which way it goes. You just want the cycle to end. You want clarity. You want peace. You want certainty.
You want someone who fills you with happiness and helps you to grow.
I get it.
For over 30 years, I’ve worked with thousands of men stuck exactly where you are right now.
Men who were trying everything they thought they were supposed to do… wondering why it only made things worse.
And there’s some good news:
There is a way through this… But it’s not what you’ve been told.
It’s not what society is preaching.
It’s not politically correct.
It’s not woke.
It’s not about being “fair” or “equal.”
But it’s real. And it works.
How do I know? Because I’ve seen it transform countless relationships.
If you want a radically different outcome, you have to do something radically different.
And if you do, it will be the greatest gift you ever give yourself and the woman you love.
But before I get into it, there are a few things you need to understand.
Relationships struggle because we ignore human nature
I’m about to tell you some things that contradict what you’ve been told about relationships.
I’ve seen these truths confirmed time and again throughout thousands of couples therapy sessions. Once you’re aware of them—and you embrace them—you’ll understand what you’ve been missing all along.
Let’s start with the biggest one first…
Monogamous relationships are not natural
If they were…
Why do more than 40% of first marriages end in divorce? 60% of second marriages? 70% of third marriages?
And why would more than 20% of married people admit to cheating? (And those are just the ones honest enough to admit it)
Lifelong, sexually exclusive monogamy has been the exception, not the rule, for most of human history.
Polygamy was normal across ancient and indigenous cultures. Biblical figures like Solomon had many wives. Roman and Greek men openly kept lovers. Chinese emperors had concubines by the hundreds.
And even though Western society moved toward monogamy, it wasn’t for love. It was to pass down property, maintain social order, and ensure legitimate heirs.
So, if you’ve been struggling to “make monogamy work,” you’re not broken. You’re fighting with an unnatural model that didn’t exist until about 300 years ago.
But, it’s here to stay…
And if you plan to participate, you have a responsibility to figure out the best way to make it work with your nature.
And, it really can work. In fact, when done consciously, monogomous relationships can be powerful personal growth machines that grow us like nothing else can.
Before that can happen, we have to take a look at another important truth…
Equality and fairness are destroying modern relationships
On paper, “equal say, equal responsibility, equal effort” sounds noble.
In practice, fairness and equality kill the thing your relationship needs most: Polarity.
Polarity is the dynamic that creates and sustains desire, attraction, and positive tension between masculine and feminine energy.
When the north and south poles of two magnets face each other, there’s a strong, natural pull that draws them together.
But put north to north or south to south and what happens?
They repel. There’s resistance. No connection. No attraction. Just tension that pushes them apart.
That’s why this idea of 50/50 equality, while well-intentioned, is actually one of the most destructive myths in modern relationships.
Because what you really need isn’t fairness… It’s polarity, positive emotional tension, and a clear understanding of who’s leading and who’s being led.
Partners can trade roles and shift energies, but relationships tend to work best when each partner has a default they settle into.
And more often than not, the person best equipped to set the tone and take the lead… is the one with the most grounded, masculine energy…
Most relationships work best when the masculine sets the tone and takes the lead
You’ve been told that because women care deeply about relationships, they should guide them.
That they’re more emotionally intelligent, more intuitive—better equipped to lead.
But I’ve seen time and time again in over three decades of group and couples therapy, this simply doesn’t hold up in practice.
Just because something matters deeply to a woman doesn’t mean she’s naturally equipped to lead it.
In fact, when a man steps back—waiting for her to set the tone, solve the problems, and move things forward—both partners end up frustrated. She feels overwhelmed and unsupported. He feels inadequate and shut out.
Here’s what I’ve seen over and over: when a man leads with clarity, presence, and love, the woman finally gets to relax. She stops trying to drive the relationship and starts showing up in ways that surprise even her.
I’ve said it for years, and I’ll say it again: a woman cannot follow where a man does not lead.
Which finally brings us to the thing I promised could stop you from staring at the ceiling all night.
The thing that can end the rollercoaster of misery you and your partner have been riding.
The thing that can empower you to create the amazing relationship you’ve always wanted, or gain the clarity to walk away with zero regret.
The thing that, if you do it correctly, is the greatest gift you’ll ever give yourself… and the woman you love.
CONSCIOUS MASCULINE LEADERSHIP
Not performance. Not “alpha” behavior. Not fake confidence. Real leadership.
The kind that doesn’t seek control, but sets the tone and takes the lead.
Leadership through complete ownership. Not of her, but of yourself. Your needs. Your values. Your boundaries. Your sexual satisfaction.
Conscious masculine leadership allows you to show up in a way that naturally shifts your relationship dynamic.
When a man leads with that kind of presence, one of two things will happen:
Your relationship will deepen in a way you never thought possible…
… Or it will becomes painfully clear that it’s time to walk away.
Either way, you’ll finally be able to stop spinning in circles. You’ll stop wondering if you’re the problem. And you’ll know with certainty that you’ve shown up fully, as the man you were meant to be.
And the most effective way to step into that kind of leadership?
That’s exactly what I’ll guide you through in a six-month process that I call…
All The Way In.
Ready to Experience These Benefits?
Enroll in All The Way In today and start transforming your relationship.
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Introducing All The Way In
Getting all the way in is the most courageous action you can take in any relationship situation.
It challenges you to act with love and integrity. It forces you to grow and to become your best self. It invites your partner to do the same. And it gives your relationship the opportunity to become all that it can be.
It also reveals the truth of any situation and it gives you the information you need when it’s time to get out.
If what you’ve been doing so far to find and keep love hasn’t been working so well, welcome to the club.
In just eight lessons, you can begin to experience the kind of amazing relationship you’ve always wanted. I warn you though, I won’t be easy on you. If you’re ready to commit, here’s what we’ll cover:
Introduction: Setting the Stage
- Why traditional relationship advice fails you
- Uncover the surprising paradoxes that govern attraction and connection.
- Learn why masculine leadership is key (and not what you think).
- See your relationship as the ultimate personal growth opportunity.
1. Getting All The Way In
- What "Going All The Way In" truly means for your commitment.
- Why taking the lead transforms the entire dynamic.
- Understand the unintended consequences when leadership is passive.
- Discover the power of commitment, even amidst uncertainty.
2. Why You and Your Partner Worked Together to Create The Relationship You Have
- Uncover the unconscious childhood blueprints shaping your relationship.
- Why you're attracted to specific traits in a partner (and it's not random).
- Identify the hidden "dance" of closeness and distance you both play.
- See your relationship challenges as clues to deeper patterns.
3. Transforming Your Anxiety-Based Relationship
- Meet your "lizard brain" and understand its impact on relationship stress.
- Break free from "First Order" reactive patterns (fighting/fixing).
- Learn how "Second Order" change creates real, lasting transformation.
- Harness the "Relationship Teeter-Totter" effect for mutual growth.
4. Calm is Contagious
- How emotions are unconsciously transmitted between partners.
- Master the art of self-soothing instead of managing external chaos.
- Unlock the secret: one calm person can shift the entire dynamic.
- Practice core tools to instantly reduce anxiety and increase presence.
5. Defuse Your Relationship
- Recognize relationship "fusion" and its hidden costs to individuality.
- Escape the trap of expecting one person to meet all your needs.
- Embrace differentiation: defining yourself within the relationship.
- Understand "neurotic guilt" and reclaim your personal authority.
6. From Salsa to The Dog Whisperer: How to Lead Your Relationship With Love
- Tap into the core driver of female attraction: security.
- Apply surprising leadership lessons from dog training and salsa dancing.
- Discover how clear leadership actually increases relationship reciprocity.
- Learn the real reason behind "shit tests" and how to pass them.
7. Love Your Partner Enough to Not Let Her Treat You Badly
- Take radical responsibility: why tolerating bad behavior is your issue.
- See boundaries not as walls, but as invitations to healthy intimacy.
- Understand the essential power source behind effective boundaries.
- Realize that setting boundaries is fundamentally about changing yourself.
8. The Three Rules for Great Sex
- Accept 100% responsibility for the sex life you have (or don't have).
- Unlock the powerful connection between deep trust and female arousal.
- Master the simple, game-changing "Three Rules for Great Sex."
- Apply these sexual principles to create more success in all areas of life.
Meet Your Instructor
Dr. Robert Glover
Hi there,
I’m Dr. Robert Glover—author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and Dating Essentials for Men, and the creator of All the Way In.
For over 30 years, I’ve worked with men, women, and couples who were frustrated, disconnected, and wondering why love felt so hard.
When I first started as a marriage therapist back in the early ‘80s, women were the ones dragging their reluctant partners into therapy. But by the time I wrapped up my private practice three decades later, the roles had reversed—men were the ones pulling their wives and girlfriends in, desperate to make things work.
After thousands of hours in sessions, one thing became clear: relationships don’t thrive when men check out and wait for their partner to lead. In fact, I discovered that when a man steps up—when he sets the tone and leads with love and integrity—everything changes. His partner softens. The tension drops. Intimacy returns. And the relationship transforms.
That’s the foundation of everything I teach in this course: not dominance, not control—but conscious masculine leadership. I’ve seen it turn disconnected marriages into passionate partnerships. I’ve seen it bring couples back from the brink. And I’ve seen it help good men finally walk away from marriages they should have left years ago.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop second-guessing yourself, and start creating the relationship you want, All the Way In will show you how.
This isn’t theory. It’s a proven path I’ve walked with thousands of men—and I’d be honored to walk it with you.
Ready to Experience These Benefits?
Enroll in All The Way In today and start transforming your relationship.
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Hear From Those Who've Gone All The Way In
T.D.
“Our sex life has gone through the roof and has never been as active as now. (We are both 53)”
T.W.
“This was the most challenging, and the most rewarding personal development course I have ever done.”
C.A.
S. P.
“From Zero to Hero in just 5 weeks! I could not have believed that such a profound transformation in my relationship could occur with an online course. I feel sheepish to say I didn’t want to spend the money – yet the investment has more than repaid itself. Thank you Dr. Glover! I look forward to taking more online courses, and learning from you in person.”
Rick S.
“Since reading NMMNG and taking your All The Way In Course, my marriage has never been better. I really do thank you for helping me help myself. I can’t wait to enjoy the improvement continue as I participate in your next course. You are performing a great service not only to guys in need but to so many families including children who will benefit from better, more satisfying marriages.”
Scott
“ATWI has made a HUGE difference to my relationship. I really didn’t expect such a huge change in just 8 weeks. I told my wife something you had written and she said, ‘now he really knows women!’”
C.E.
“While I was driving yesterday, my wife — who is a very careful woman — suddenly turned to me and kissed me on the mouth. I have been with her 32 years and that has never happened. I nearly drove off the road in surprise! There is no doubt that you have given me some great valuable tools. Thank you, Robert.”
J.H.
(Female class member)
“Thanks so much for offering this class – it was eye-opening, challenging, and has changed how I think about my interactions with my husband. It is reassuring – and a bit scary – to understand the reasons behind certain behaviors, and how to change long ingrained habits and dynamics. Since I barely scratched the surface of what I can put into practice, I plan to re-do the lessons on my own in the future, to keep the ideas fresh in my brain.”
S.S.
“The class helped me look at my relationship as a personal growth machine, understanding how my lizard brain is triggered by my partner, and setting boundaries without being controlling.”
A. P.
“This is got to be one of my best investments in personal growth! Years and years of being in the dark about relationships and how my past has played a role in the eventual outcome of how relationships with women would end…Thank you Dr. Glover!”
Bonus Materials
BONUS
Downloadable Worksheets & Exercises
Practical guides and exercises to implement what you learn in each module.
BONUS
Guided Practices for Presence and Communication
Audio guides to help you master key skills and integrate them into your daily life.
Your Satisfaction Guarantee
We are confident that the principles and practices in All The Way In will profoundly impact your relationship. We stand behind our digital products at drglover.com. While we do not offer cash refunds for digital courses like All The Way In, we want you to be satisfied with your investment. If, within 30 days of your original purchase, you feel the course hasn't met the quality you expected or provided value, we are happy to exchange it for another digital product of the same price (e.g., another digital class). This exchange offer can be applied one time per purchase and must be requested within 30 days of the original purchase. To request an exchange, please contact us at support@drglover.com.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this course for?
This course is for individuals or couples who feel their relationship is stuck, lacking intimacy, or simply not living up to its potential. It’s for anyone ready to take responsibility and learn the tools to create deep connection and passion, whether you’re married, in a long-term partnership, or even single and wanting to prepare for a healthy relationship.
What if my partner isn't interested?
While it’s ideal for both partners to participate, this course is designed so that one person can be the catalyst for significant change. By changing how you show up, you fundamentally change the relationship dynamic. Many find their partners become more engaged as they see the positive shifts.
How much time does it require?
This is a self-paced course, so you can move as quickly or slowly as you like. We recommend dedicating a few hours per week to watch the lessons and, more importantly, implement the exercises and practices. Consistency is key.
What kind of results can I expect?
Results depend on your commitment and implementation. However, participants consistently report increased connection, better communication, reduced conflict, renewed passion, deeper intimacy, and a greater sense of confidence in their ability to navigate relationship challenges.
What if I'm single?
Absolutely! The principles in All The Way In are foundational for building any healthy relationship. Learning these skills now will prepare you to create an extraordinary partnership when the time is right, and help you avoid common pitfalls.